When we decide to trust someone after they were dishonest or disloyal to us the first time around, we are choosing to put our heart into someone’s hands with whom we know is capable of hurting us again. With this being said, knowing that they may be able to hurt you again is not what should be focused on. Instead after a thorough reconciliation and grieving period we have to be willing to get past the past in order to grow the relationship.

In order to do more of what makes you happy, you must first do some soul searching and find out what in life really makes you happy. Many times in life our own mind and free will get clouded by other people’s visions for our lives and sometimes it gets hard to see our vision for ourselves. To get out of and away from everybody else’s thoughts and plans for you, you have to take time to hang with yourself daily.

ALL YOU CAN EAT !

Nobody Likes a Brown Noser!

Never regret anything because at one time it was exactly what you wanted.

Many of us are quick to assume that if we are breathing and functional that we are actually “alive”. Being alive is actually being the person who you really are at heart. You might be living your life, but that life may not constitute you being alive if you aren’t living as the person who you really know you are. So many of us feel pressure to run our lives as those who claim they love us want us to live it.

The people who really love you will allow you to live life as yourself, and will encourage you to follow your heart, as long as they know that it won’t kill you. Following your heart is making a choice to be alive. Following your heart requires you to listen to no one but god and yourself in order to make your decisions. Following your heart will leave you fulfilled and will also lead to happiness. What are you following? Your heart’s path? Or the path that everyone else wants you to follow?